愛上最討厭的閱讀 
作者:Winnie Pao 👧🏻
認識我的人對我的印象應該是愛運動!但是除了我媽跟我姊之外,應該很少人知道「我超級討厭讀書」。
小時候,為了成績,我會勉強自己讀一點點書,但就只侷限課本喔,讀沒幾分鐘就會去對牆丟個棒球,玩累了才會回來再看一下下書,一個晚上下來,加總起來也看不到一小時吧!成績還不錯可能是我比較會抓重點跟運氣吧,因為我是真的很討厭讀書!所以,課外讀物對我來說根本就是免談,連漫畫書我都不願意看的,我覺得漫畫都會拍成卡通,看卡通就好啦,多輕鬆!
以上是2022以前的我,v1.0版。
2022年的我,想說除了運動,自己應該要來點不一樣的,一開始只是覺得大眾認知看書的人比較有氣質,於是虛榮心作祟的我就開始「假裝」有在看書,從公司跟學長送的幾本書開始隨身攜帶,有時間就拿起來看一下,看書是其次,其實我內心更在意的是有沒有人看到「我在看書」,他們看到一定會覺得我很有內涵,就這樣假裝看著看著,不知不覺就看完了好幾本。但是要巧遇看到我在看書的人那麼少,根本無法滿足我的虛榮心,於是我想到,到Facebook、IG上寫心得,讓更多人知道我在看書(有氣質),寫著寫著不知不覺又好幾篇了,開始覺得用社交軟體寫心得,不能貼插圖跟表格很侷限,於是就自己架了這個部落格Winnie Blog維妮樂讀,自己的網站當然希望能內容豐富,於是我默默的給自己訂了一個「一週一書」的目標,照著《原子習慣》書中的方法,慢慢培養出喜歡閱讀的習慣。
隨著時間過去,漸漸地累積看了蠻多書之後,有一天,我突然發現我長大了,我對人事物的態度和反應跟以前不一樣了,默默地,我就會把書中讀到的知識或方法應用在生活中,我開始覺察到自己的同理心很低,我開始試著仔細聽別人說話而不是在想我要回應什麼,我開始會注意自己是不是書上的反例,我開始在意別人的心情而不是在意別人看我的眼光!
因為感受到自己的成長,真心覺得看書真好,看一個禮拜的書就可以學到這位作者畢生的經驗,CP值超高。
現在的我v2.0版,瘋狂愛上閱讀!
最後,想跟大家分享的是,如果有一件你覺得該做但是卻很討厭的事,可以試著「假裝」很喜歡,Fake it till you make it!
希望透過我的書摘心得分享,跟大家一起遇見更好的自己! 💕
p.s. 如果有喜歡的書,可以點書摘心得的書的封面那張圖,就會連結到博客來購買連結,透過我的連結購買,可以給我大大的鼓勵喔!
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